Monday, 27 July 2009
If He Beats You, Run And Never Come Back!
There have been rumoures flying around that Chris and Rihanna are back together yet again soon after Chris made the fake apology to Riri. According to London's Daily Mail, the two were seen checking into the Trump International Hotel and Tower on Friday at separate rooms.
If the rumour mill is true and that they are still seeing each other, I'm not surprised at all. Hell I wouldn't be surprised if they come out in the open and say they still a couple. I've always said and will continue to say that there's more to what really happened that night in February than what the rest of us know.
Besides that, these types of things always happen, I've seen it with my own eyes. A guy will knock they lights out of his girlfriend or wife and sometimes he will beat up so badly she ends up in hospital but still once he smooth talks her she will go running back to his arms as if nothing has ever happened.
Personally I never been in that situation coz I feel I'm way smarter than to stay in an abusive relationship that is draining me physical and mentally. Nonetheless I've had encounter with people I know that have/are in abusive relationships but still choose to stay despite the on-going abuse. I asked one beautiful sister who was in an abusive relationship with a very relative of mine why does she stay and continue with such abuse and she simply told me it's coz they have a child together and she wants him to be in his child's life. I told that is just an excuse to stay, which I still feel strongly about. The sad part is that they have broken up and he simply refuses to be in the child's life unless a circumstance forces him to.
Ladies must learn that if a guy beats you up, even once, pack your bags and leave because 99.99% of the time he will do it again. And if he sees that you a sucker for a smack he will take advantage of your weakness and one day he will end up taking you to your grave.
So ladies stop being fools of these sorry excuses for men and stand up your ground. When the relationship is becoming too abusive don't be afraid to cut your loses and leave him. Regardless on whether you have a child with him or not. Regardless on any other circumstance coz your life and the lives of your loved ones is much more important than anything else.
Yes Mpume said so.
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its sad. and majority of women that are in this relationships dont speak out even thou help is there. you should provide the numbers women can use to get help.
ReplyDeleteyea you right rofhiwa. most of them are with these abusive men coz they are their providers financially and if they lose these men they will lose that financial stability. maybe i will post thos numbers
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